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  1. Melina Elisa says

    This is really interesting. I do fantasize a lot about sex. I’m not completely sure if mine are completely taboo, but I have had the same fantasy of someone forcing sex on me and liking, while in reality I know I don’t really want that. It’s really weird, and I’m not completely sure why when I have dreams about it or fantasize about it I want it, but it would honestly be traumatizing in real life. I don’t know if it should necessarily be normalized, mainly because it might add to the “we’re asking for it”. Great post laura xx

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    • LauraJ says

      Thank you Melina. I think a lot of women have the same fantasy (some statistics suggest it) so I don’t think it’s all that weird. Maybe because we fantasise it completely differently from reality. If it was imagined very similar and graphic, then that would probably be a cause for concern. xx

    • Alain Nahle says

      Interesting topic, I believe is about the limits we have set up for ourselfs, if you go beyond those limits you can either move forward end expand those limits or never try that again…. as long as everybody do it for pleasure, fun or love is ok, as long as nothing is against your will should be ok.

      • LauraJ says

        Thank you Alain. It’s always about ensuring it’s not against your will and nor the other person’s. I agree and think if everyone is happy, then it’s okay to explore different things and some away from the norm. 🙂