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  1. Caitlyn says

    Usually if I have sex on the first date it’s because I am more interested in having sex than dating them. Some I don’t even want to date. Usually if I do this I set them up as a fwb not bf. If I’m actually interested in dating I wait a few dates but it’s not a rule, just usually how it works out.

    • LauraJ says

      This remains the only experience I’ve had with first date sex. During the date, I remember having this great time and thinking this could be something serious. But in the morning, I just didn’t that same feeling. I’m not sure if I would have first date sex again, and whether it would form into a relationship. But I will never say never 🙂

  2. Dortea says

    I’ve never had sex on the first date. I’m conservative but I don’t judge others that do. As always, I enjoyed reading.

    • LauraJ says

      Thank you Dortea. First date sex is not for everyone and up until I had actually done it, I was very uninterested. Thanks for reading.

  3. LauraJ says

    Thank you!! Lovely to see your name on WP! I agree with you and think instinct plays a huge part. I’m sure they’re some guys who for whatever reason, seem more reliable and ideal to sleep with on the first night, while others on the second or third. xx

  4. Melina Elisa says

    I actually have never had sex on the first date. While I have had a one night stand, it wasn’t really a date, and I wasn’t even considering him to be a potential romantic partner. I don’t know why, but I always get so nervous about having sex on the first date. I honestly don’t know why. I don’t judge others who do it, so why don’t I? I guess I’m a little traditional in that sense. The girl made a great point though. It definitely would weed out people who aren’t serious. Great post xxx

    Melina |

    • LauraJ says

      Before this date, I never ever thought about sex on the first date. I would always go on dates with the full intention of going home after. But I have to say, now I’ve done it, it didn’t feel much different from waiting for the second or third. Maybe a lot of it depends on connection and feeling comfortable.
      I don’t know if I could go back to a guy’s house if I had nerves or some kind of bad instinct. You really have to trust that the guy is a nice person and you’re not going to spend the night at some random, unhygienic place or have some super awkward moment. xxx

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