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  1. LauraJ says

    I actually had a small paragraph written about being nervous in bed when I’m with a guy I really like. I deleted it though because I’m not 100% sure. Most fear for me comes from acceptance, so once I’m confident with how someone feels, I can relax.

    But I totally get that it can be harder with someone you’re hoping to date for the long-term. It has much more meaning than sleeping with guy you probably won’t see again.

    Overthinking is the worst when it comes to sex. Usually happens when I have strong feelings. I’m glad you like the post. I think because I’ve slowly built up to these types of articles, I feel more confident. And it’s fun writing about something different. xx

  2. thelonelyauthorblog says

    Well, I have been gone for a few month and I return to find you are not shying away from the difficult subjects.

    LauraJ, I always found foreplay to be the key. It is important from breaking ice for a new couple, it is important for building tension that leads to clmax.
    With girlfriends who were insecure, I found the cuddling and foreplay makes them feel better about themselves, helping them to feel a little less body conscious.

    How are you?

    • LauraJ says

      Yes, my blog has gone through a lot of changes in the past few months. I’ve really experienced a confidence boost in my writing and what I want to share.

      Foreplay is definitely the key. It does make people more relaxed and in turn, less focused on how their body looks.

      I’m doing well thanks. As usual, never enough time to catch up with everyone and stay on top of everything, but I try my best. I can only imagine what it’s like for you keeping up with your blog comments, so I’m grateful you’ve found time to message. Really hoping your health issues get better as soon as possible!

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