Reader Interactions


  1. hoiyinli says

    “Already I’ve banned men with cats…” made me laugh hugely. I don’t like cats either so any cat owner is almost an instant no for me. In fact, I used to be terrified of cats when I was young!

    I don’t think I have ever considered a man with kids to be honest. I can’t say I will now either and don’t see myself doing that in the future. I love children but I just don’t see that type of relationship work out for me. But who knows.

    • LauraJ says

      I think it’s something about their claws that puts me off. I funnily enough liked them as a kid but now I try to just avoid them.

      It is a difficult having a relationship with another child involved. I don’t see it in my future either, but it’s not something I would completely rule out.

  2. thelonelyauthorblog says

    Still laughing over the banning of men with cats.

    LauraJ, this was a big one for me. From my personal experience, it has never gone well for me. And I have tried it a few times.
    Let me this clear, I love children. But it has just never worked out for me. Right now, I would prefer to mee a woman with a cat.

    • LauraJ says

      What can I say, I’m not a cat person. I’d probably prefer the children haha!

      I know people can end up meeting others with kids and have amazing relationships, but there’s a lot of pressure to make sure everyone is happy. It is a lot more complicated but I’d never say never.