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  1. Melina Elisa says

    I agree with all of these! I do have to say, I feel like when people say that love will come when you least expect it. They don’t mean it in the sense of routines and stuff. I think they mean that you don’t have to be frantically looking and dating around constantly to have to find your person. I feel like you can just go with the flow, and eventually, you will find your person. I was taking a break from the apps and dating when I met J. And it’s funny, because neither of us were supposed to be at that party we ended up at. We were both going to cancel last minute for one reason or another. And so I was going to have fun with my friend, and he popped into my life. It was unexpected for me, cause I never would have guess that I would find someone that night. Great post Laura xx

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    • LauraJ says

      I agree – ‘love will come when you least expect it’ can be about not frantically looking. But sometimes, people use that phrase as an excuse to give up or to not try. Even putting yourself at that party in a way was you opening yourself up to the possibility of finding love, despite you not expecting it. I’ve met people before who go to the same pubs and bars all the time, hoping that one day their ideal person will just turn up. When realistically, you have to look or at least go to new places to meet someone. xx

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