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How serious do you take monogamy? . Yesterday in c

How serious do you take monogamy?
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Yesterday in conversation, me and my partner discussed tradition. And I thought, despite not considering myself a "traditional person", many of the things I believe in and follow are based on old customs. Monogamy, for example. I've been reading articles on how it's beginning to adapt, with some couples now opting for "consensual monogamy" - open freedom to enjoy other relationships outside of the one you have. It's not for everyone, but I believe some people hold back from exploring this option due to fear. So if you're looking for a good read, I've written a blog on this subject. Bio link to read. P.s, anyone else prefer trousers to jeans?

Is the whole Parisian/French girl style aesthetic

Is the whole Parisian/French girl style aesthetic a tad stereotyped - minimal, chic, styled but not overdressed... maybe. But I totally love the concept so I've created a blog on Parisian date night outfits. Looks that say... yes I've made an effort but no I haven't spent forever getting ready... Do you have a go-to date night look?

'Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature'

'Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature' - Marilyn Monroe. Bio link to read more tips.

"They're funny, kind, romantic, hard-working... bu

"They're funny, kind, romantic, hard-working... but I don't fancy them/we don't have great sex".. I've received many emails and comments which begin by describing "the almost perfect partner" and then go on to say how they're not physically attractive to them; they don't enjoy intimacy. It's no secret we're suppose to seek honesty and commitment - prioritising looks and money is often perceived shallow. But I've learnt (especially through blog research) we have to decide ourselves what we care about. I couldn't date someone who I don't find attractive or who leaves me yearning for more passion. Does near perfect cut it? To me, no. It leaves you unsatisfied. It's not about finding someone wealthy, hot, stylish and kind. Just knowing what factors you definitely need to stay content. Do you place sexual attraction on the same scale as emotional?

Social media and dating apps have made catching a

Social media and dating apps have made catching a cheating partner incredibly difficult. Unless a person admits to infidelity, you're likely to never 100% know. That's why some people opt for private investigators. I interviewed one of the biggest agencies, UK Private Investigators (UK PI) on how they catch cheaters and the signs someone is cheating. They've noticed a 15-20% increase in people requesting their services since the pandemic which they believe is due to couples being "trapped" with each other during lockdown. Could you ever see yourself using such a service? I find the career choice interesting. Bio link to read...

I've had A LOT of embarassing moments with my part

I've had A LOT of embarassing moments with my partner. Just last weekend, we were at a spa hotel swimming pool. I get to the changing rooms and realised there's no keys to lock the changing room doors. After walking round like an idiot trying to figure it out, I asked someone where they are. She replied, "Right at reception, there's a BIG box full of keys". So in my swimming costume, I head back to reception to pick up some keys. Go back to the changing rooms and then struggled to lock the door. The woman looked at me and said, "You've picked up the mens keys". Back to reception I went... Photos kind of link because I wore this outfit at the hotel 😁

"It feels we have glossed and edited what it means

"It feels we have glossed and edited what it means to be sexually liberated". Last week, OnlyFans stated it would ban adult content from its site. Their actions add to the growing removal of sexuality in society: - Social media censorship
- Female models banned from Formula 1
- Adverts of women banned for being too sexual... We talk so much about self-love and body confidence, but many in the sex industry and those less sexually conventional still face shame and stigma. How can we understand ourselves sexually if society spreads the message that sex should be hidden? New blog: Why is Society Becoming Less Sexually Liberated? Bio link to read.

Some photos from my birthday weekend. As much as

Some photos from my birthday weekend. As much as I'm in a happy relationship now, I feel I spent a lot of time during lockdown figuring myself out and learning to love being in my own company. For a number of years, I was in a toxic situation where I kept running back to a guy who continually made me believe I was in the wrong. I kept thinking I had to change myself. I've realised now that if you put the work in to love yourself, you'll likely attract better people and walk away faster from the bad. My most recent post is in my bio link: How to become more sexually confident in the bedroom.

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